your family may be shocked, but they should support you and be happy for you. According to her, she's been separated from her husband for quite a while, and is just waiting for the divorce to finalize. remember your not just with this girl, she has 2 kids, so make sure you get along with her kids as well.If i was to meet this girls for a date or two, what attitude should i have to the fact she's got a child if it comes up in conversation? I'll never do it again because being a step parent sucks major ass.Obviously i've never dated a girl with kids, so I outa my depth here and would appreciate some advice. Especially if the kids real father is still around. Dating chicks that have kids allows you to date out of your league.You may need to run some sort of background check or something to know what kind of temperament the guy has.A suave, zen-like guy who can hold in his inner lion is great but if you have a temper tantrum throwing lunatic around your baby, you need to drop him like a bad habit.
Even if she wouldn't have given you the time of day before she had a kid, you've got a hell of a shot now. If you just want to hit and quit it, that's one thing (cause who says chicks with kids don't want some cawk), but if she wants you to meet her kid etc, you've got some soul searching to do.
Just trying to get other peoples' opinions so I can guess how my family will react when I introduce her. i see no problem with it, if anything i think it's great a lad at 20 years old would consider being with a woman with 2 kids, it doesn't happen all that often.
Love, dating and relating to the opposite sex are important factors in living out the "Purity Code".
As with anything new, practice is needed or in this case just feeling comfortable with this new situation.
After time, the child will feel more and more comfortable and frustration will lessen.