Women’s ministry leaders are often asked how to find a husband, where the good husbands are, and what’s wrong with the single mom who seems to be staying single.
Instead of becoming a matchmaker, which would be a full time job or ministry, we can guide moms to set dating boundaries.
Single mothers are bona fide idiots and here is why you should never even consider dating one: First, this is a woman who clearly doesn’t give a shit about her child’s well-being and future prospects.
Lumping her in with single mothers is an insult to his memory, to her and to her children. Divorced mothers are also NOT single mothers, although a huge flashing PROCEED WITH CAUTION sign is definitely in order. A single mother is a woman who had a child outside of any established relationship, or a relationship so fragile the thickest retard in the world ought to have been able to see bringing a child on board was a FUCKING TERRIBLE IDEA.
In other relationships, you may have been able to gauge a woman’s feelings for you by how much time and energy she put into your relationship.
When you’re dating a single mom, this isn’t necessarily the case.
I’ve been surprised about how quickly it turns to rudeness.
Ghosting after a few (or a lot of) text messages and never meeting people in person is common.
Having a child out of wedlock is pretty much the number one thing you can do to fuck up your life. Never, ever assume a divorced woman is some innocent blushing maid cruelly abused by some terrible man. What kind of insecurities plague a woman who thinks getting married to a drug addict is good idea?Before, it was all lengthy profiles and revealing charming details about yourself, followed by a polite exchange of get-to-know-you-banter emails and arrangements to meet for coffee.Now, it is a lot of pictures and swiping right, followed by some text messages if you’re lucky.When you’re dating a single mom, let her handle 100% of the kids’ discipline.The only exception to this rule is if she specifically asks for your support or help.A preset boundary helps them avoid falling into wrong relationships or actions.