Having recently tried to find good cybersex myself, I see why it's taking them so long. In the olden days, you could find chat rooms where adults bantered, flirted and seduced one another in a supportive community.
People developed relationships that ranged from casual friendship to erotic involvement to love affairs.
Cyber sex might change your feelings towards yourself or the other person.
You might regret sending something when drunk that you would never have sent sober.
And once you hit send, you no longer have control over what happens next.
While many groan about the number of friendship requests from strangers on Facebook and random trolling on Twitter, an adventurous group of men - and women - are turning to sites like Tinder, Fropper and OK Cupid in search of companionship. The kiss was okay, but he turned out to be boring," says Piyali, who only meets these men at "respectable hours and public places." She might insist that sex doesn't top her list of priorities but a quick scroll of profiles on these sites reveals that Indian women are not shying away from putting their desires out there.
A user from New Delhi, writes in her profile: "You should message me if you're a bi/bi-curious/gay female and interested in some real fun." Many of the profiles of women on these sites mention that they are bisexual.